When Things Fall Apart.....

Motivational Monday---

When you feel like things are crumbling around  you and you can't help but stand idly by, some see that as rock bottom.  It is most certainly NOT  rock bottom... it is purely  just a challenge...  It is like doing that last set of crunches after going WELL above your normal.  It is what you do with stress or complications that define you as a person, not the stresses or issues. I think to many people are worried about asking for help or even receiving help because of the perception of weakness, really it just means you are a team person that knows they are not to finish such a challenge alone.  Sometimes life throws the big things at you that makes you realize you need certain people in you life. Everything should and will make you appreciate what you have been dealt. With going into a field that I am soooooo strongly passionate about I only want to be the ABSOLUTE  best I can be.  Unfortunately  it is not very easy because I don't know everything yet.  So I  do get frustrated when the answers don't come to me or when I have a challenge that I should know once I get experience.  This can be transpired  to a lot things people run into in the world of challenges. Just because you don't know what to do now, doesn't mean you will not know  the next time.  I knowwwww.... It is SO cliche' but you really do learn from mistakes, and honestly  if that mistake happened again you would know exactly what to do....  but lets be honest...  that mistake isn't going to happen again....lol
Bottom line if you have a challenge or a hurdle... ASK FOR HELP.... your friends, your TRUE friends will help  you.  You do not need to worry about being judged  because those who love you will not and those who judge you, don't matter. 

Ch ch cha Changes

Let us be  clear, change sucks, no matter what it comes from or how small  it is.

 

The littlest change can throw anyone off,  it doesn't mean that you are forever altered,  it just throws a wrench in the day  or event.  Like  not getting your usual  coffee, or not get the phone call you are use to.  To bigger changes of not having a person  around when you need them most.  It is how a person deals with them that makes them strong.   So weather you have a moment change  of a trafficy  day to not having someone in your life....  what you  do with it defines you, not the lack of them  or things.

Motivational Monday v.7---Don't sweat the small stuff

Don't sweat the small stuff...............


Easier said than done most of the time right?   If you have a passion for something even the littlest thing can make you feel crazy.  Any where from a simple image not turning out the way you wanted it to, to the god awful words of "we need to talk" and not having the time to talk after.   But honestly  in situations like this  I tell myself, things that are meant to work will work out....if it isn't then its only a matter of time...  But that doesn't mean you shouldn't fight for what you want most! So instead of worrying, figure it out and figure out what you should do next that makes you the most happy.  You should after all be making yourself the happiest you can be.  Worrying about the little things are not going to be best achieving that....think that way!!!

Valentines Day...It is what you want it to be

Single-tines, Valentines Call it what you want Ohhh the awesomeness that we call valentines day... I have such a love/hate relationship with this day. I do believe it is this awful idea for relationships to be forced to shower love on this day only. I believe if you are in a loving relationship you should have everyday be a day where you love one another. Why need one day?! I mean I do loveeee this holiday when I have someone to share it with, why wouldn't any normal person love this holiday if they actually get a chance to be able to live it up with someone they love. Although when I was in a relationship, I never saw Valentines day as this HUGE production. I do believe I have a hard time with being told what to do. I do love the idea of doing things when it is least expected. Therefore doing something on Valentines day seems sooo predictable, [plus you can never find a restaurant to go to]. I wish people would use valentines day to say they love someone that doesn't get to see it or feel it every day..OHHH... Yesterday I went to the grocery  store...  The smell of roses  were OVERWHELMING! I must be broken because as a girl, I would rather have Lily's  or Stargazers  over the typical roses...  But hey... any flowers are nice! I think what is going to be hard this valentines is that...  The older I get the more interesting it is to have romantic gestures on days  that are deemed "romantic necessary".  But I am not into the awkward "I feel pressured" because it is Valentines day to be  romantic, I want the genuine  I am feeling romantic, lovey dovey to you because I care about you...  Not because there is a holiday dedicated to it. 

 OHHH I also have to pay tribute to my single ladies on Valentines day:  I must admit my FAVORITE Valentines day was with two of my girlfriends at like 10pm we went to the bar and ordered  lemon drops.  The crowd and group  was by far the BEST fun I have had in all of my Valentines!!!  Single ladies, go out with your friends in the best way possible! It will be SO worth it and fun! I wish the single ladies wouldn't beat themselves up about not having "the one"  to celebrate this hallmark holiday with..... Get over it!  Girl friends can be a perfect substitute!! I know life can go either way on this "holiday" but what you make of it  it what really matters!!

So on that note:

You know who you are!!!  Will you?!

What are your plans this Valentines?!

Motivational Monday v.6--- De-Stress!

 Life is what you make of it, or so we are told. I think that when everything goes wrong it is your duty to make it right. It is your duty to make life to what you want it. This motivational Monday is just that... Going for what you want! I have found myself under a lot of stress lately because of schooling and my life in general. Quick background: My dad had me get a degree(best idea ever, Thanks dad!) then I got a great job(not a career, but definitely something were I could use my degree) ...but I have always wanted to be an esthetician, my dad didn't support it, but I was going to do it by Hell or high water..and right now I am doing it... I quit my great job to take a job that will give me better insight to my career. I don't have regrets, but it is definitely worth every second of it...sometimes I just need a little motivation... I am sharing it to hopefully help all of you too!!!!!

 Best Advice for  ANYONE in anything!!! Take it!