What type of society has it turned into?!

I open up MSN today and the articles I find are: "Best Ways to rebound from a divorce" I of course click on it not because I am a divorcee but because I would love to see what type of advice is floating out there. Atop of the sexual information that explains how to rebound gracefully. It says to smash the wedding ring in a fun way...to make it remarkable....welp I am sooo glad I read that article because if I ever come across a divorce I am going to tell them to smash their ring up because that will aid in the rebound. Seriously?!
Later in the evening, I was looking through some things and I come across an article that says "Virginity's making a comeback, report says" well who said that it was out? I mean, I think on the contrary, our society has become so much more sexually expressive. I mean trust me I AM NOT complaining by any means, but have you listened to the radio lately? I have new anthems left and right. Anthem #1 "What the Hell" by Avril Lavigne "All my life I've been good but now, woah, I'm thinking what the hell All I want is to mess around and I don't really care about
If you love me, if you hate me, you can't save me, baby, baby
All my life I've been good but now, whoa, what the hell "
Anthem #2 "S & M" by Rihanna ~"Cause I may be bad, but I'm perfectly good at it
Sex in the air, I don't care, I love the smell of it
Sticks and stones may break my bones
But chains and whips excite me"

I mean that is just a few that I have fallen in love with. and with the sexually driven songs it is just one step into the world of life. What about the movies, ten years ago if we would have had a movie called "just friends" it would certainly not be about Friends with Benefits and how it was successful. I guess it is the way things have changed. Back when, a person would hear FWB it was this awful slutty javascript:void(0) thing that people who were afraid of commitment would do. Now, it is a person who just has a large appetite for sex. It is just amazing how things change and what they become, but if we are changing so much now what will happen in 10 years? Where will it go and what will it change too?

....when the straight and narrow hits a bend...

The best feeling ever is when everything seems like it is going perfect, you are smooth sailing. You are getting all that you need and wanted. What happens when it changes, it is like hitting a brick wall. You could be doing so good a work, than one day could make you feel like it is your first day all over again. With the significant others world, you could be having those awesome eye flirts, convo's or what ever tickles your fantasy and one little thing can make you feel like it is all over. First let me just tell you everyone has off days...don't take it personal. Humans are emotional creatures, it would be weird if we all were perfectly expected every moment of the day. Not to mention sooo boring. You have to admit that girl in the bathroom bawling her eyes out for only god knows why at a bar after a few to many drinks is quite entertaining. Guys can be too how about that guy that gets sooo incredibly angry over a sports play or call...yup I laugh there too :) On the flip side those who show nooo emotion are soo boring..its like looking at a blank slate that the artist forgot to play with. Remember to be the emotion you want to be, just do it with out theatrics, that only gets the first seat to the looney bin or basement.

Analyze, Predict, Re-evaluate

Well as often as those make goals, you should be able to change them to suit individual need and desire. I mean we do it all the time with everything else in life why should goals not fit into that criteria as well? I mean I change my mind almost everyday! I have the true values and morals that I keep in my day to day actions, but the fluffy stuff I am always changing. Sometimes I like my hair, sometimes I don't. Even clothes I buy one day I may HATE the next. The other day at work one of the customers had mentioned her technique to riding the old/unused clothes in the closet(since we are talking about change ;)). She would at the beginning of the month put all the hangers facing one way, when she wore them she would than turn the hanger the other way. At the end of the month which ever hanger was not flipped the other way, was tossed(for those who are conscious, if it still had tags try and return it or give it to a shelter. I have heard that you can get some pretty good money back from consignment shops. It is worth a shot right?! What was the original topic of the blog...always seems to get hazy after I have rambled for a bit.

pathetic.....

I didn't even last two days on my goal.... I think I am going to change it....a post a week.... I mean really do I have anything that amazing to say yet everyday?! Yikes! Stay tuned.

...when a personality trait becomes a pet peeve...

When things go from "oh it is just a fluke", to "oh my goodness that is annoying". When does it change for an individual. I mean I have my personal things that irritate that be-jesus out of me...but for the right person it is ignored for as long as it can be. For me I have found that I have quite a few that I put aside for awhile until it I can't. Once I can't put them aside and they keep happening, its time to cut my losses. Some of my pet peeves are, I hate when a person doesn't text back, like I am not needy or clingy(I am the opposite), but it is just common sense, a person texts you...text them back. Is it really that hard?! I mean texting is suppose to be the less intrusive way to communicate with out the pressure of face to face or voice to voice. My other pet peeve is don't say something you don't mean...if you are going to do something or be somewhere, do it or be there. People with out goals or destinations for themselves are hopeless. How can a person go daily through their lives without wanting to be something better? I mean how can a person be simply content with doing nothing?! To hang with me: text back, be where you say you will and want to do something with your life! Now shouldn't everyone have those standards?! :)



Pic of the day: Is a photo of graduation, I am using this one because it just the starting of a chapter that shows growth, goals, and determination....something everyone should have!